It goes even further than that, way further. Concubines in China were known
for being sent to death by the Emporer for having children with men other
than the Emporer. Its probably a practice that predates Cromagnon man.
I’d do the two women thing but I wouldn’t share with a guy!
@FitnessGuru1988 Just for clarification Guru, I never stated there wasn’t
any marriage to”traditional marriage”. If you want to get married, have at
it. To even begin to have this conversation you have to define what you
mean by “last”. If the definition means to death to us part, clearly, most,
or a large number of relationship across the board don’t “last”. Then
again, that’s never been my definition of success in a relationship. It’s
more about what you learn, and the person you become.
I couldn’t be in a relationship that where I wasn’t the only guy. More than
one woman sure, but not another guy. I’m not judging, that’s just for
@AsheIsTheRaven Can you show us in the Bible where God blesses incest and
paedophilia? I don’t recall him doing so. Jesus hated paedophiles and said
that it would be better for them to be thrown in a lake with a millstone
around their neck than to offend the little ones.
Whoa whoa whoa! Jeez guys, can’t we just agree to disagree? The arguments
in here are mad! Our family situations don’t affect each other in any way.
I’m not poly-anything, but I know to respect others’ opinions… Sheesh!
the comments are to long here a shorter one: ew
maybe if these girls werent consistently going for douches they wouldnt be
Family, the webseries. Will check. I cheerfully skipped Big Love and am now
cheerfully skipping Sister Wives. But this seems interesting.
@ByJustified Wow. It never ceases to amaze me how judgmental some people
can be, and how they love to assume that people must have “issues” or
“unfortunate past experiences” or that there is somehow something innately
wrong with anybody who isn’t what they expect everyone else to be. Believe
it or not, some of us just happen to believe in love without limits. It
doesn’t mean we’re broken, it means that we love differently than you.
Different does NOT equal defective!
To everyone here who subscribes to “polyamory” or “polyandr”y which is
actually adultery and fornication, I suggest you guys go back to the
original Designer of relationship so you won’t end up wrecking your lives
and the lives of many people. The Lord God originally designed marriage and
relationships so please stop trying to redesign it as if you know what
you’re doing. Read the Bible please.
@auju123 I actually think you would explain it like that. I think the
biggest issue would be other children’s parents and when the children hit
the teen age years. Young children would be the easiest to tell.
@TheLionheartArts Well, children grow up anyway. So, little or not,
eventually, it would become an issue
(Pt. 3) like you said, you’d be hurt if your partner was in love with
someone else. That can make things very, very difficult & hard for anyone.
At the end of the day, you just have to make the best decision you can for
yourself and your lover(s). I just wish that everyone could be as kind as
you are about it, instead of judging us for simply trying to live our lives
as best we can. I handle it better than most since I was used to it because
I’m pansexual, but I’ve seen it wreck families.
not to me
Also, these people play this game of pretending to love one and have sexual
relationships with others. In 99% of the cases, this game ends up causing
more emotional harm than the benefits derived. That is just reality.
Then you missed the point it is about being as happy as possible.
I don’t know…go ask one! I never said I was a “Monogamist”. Nor have ever
said anything about the sanctity of monogamy. But in any case, you still
haven’t answered my questions. If one can get “love” from strictly platonic
relationships, than why does one need to add more people to the party? I
have very meaningful friendships where I get lots of love, but we don’t
have to add sex to it in order to express our appreciation for one another.
What’s different with Poly’s and their relationships?
Yeah, time and money would certainly be an issue too. I love many people
too, just in that way though. When I crossed that line and went there with
friends in the past, we had always been attracted to one another. But,
acting on those feelings, created many more problems for each of us. In
some cases, losing the relationship in its entirety because things could
never go back to being the way were prior to crossing that line. In the
end, that was the most painful loss of all was losing my friend.
So, what if you fall in love with someone, but your girl doesn’t share the
same feelings for her. Then what? Or, what if your girl falls for another
guy, are you willing to be in a relationship with another guy?
I found that really helpful. I had been so mystified looking at my best
mate change from being lame to a ladies man. He began attracting girls
magically. I was astounded. He pretended he failed to realize. He finally
came clean two days ago. He said he learned from the Jake Ayres Master
Attraction Formula. Google it and you’ll find it… He’s dating a beauty…
Lucky guy! Where are the best movies on Youtube?
I appreciate their preferences. We know it’s not for everyone; I am one of
the “everyone”s, as my preference is a singular person. No Judgment. To all
parties, their own. Namast`e.
@Groundhog713 no. Not at all. Might be reality for you. Polyamery is an
understanding between ALL PARTIES involved.
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