25 thoughts on “BDSM, Polyamory and Sexual Abuse

  1. scottbalf

    People… What a bunch of bastards. Don’t trust anyone… Especially like
    Australian girls with red hair who are vegans… They’re dangerous sex
    killers.

  2. Rowland Goodbody

    Just an addition: while it kind of depends on how people define it, I don’t
    think you have to be in a relationship with more than one person to be
    *strictly* polyamorous. It’s more of a mindset of being open to those
    relationships, and everyone does it differently anyway.

  3. Ellen Fry

    Have these been confirmed? I am not denying that they happened, and I know
    for a fact that it is more likely that a victim is telling the truth than
    not, you just have to look at the stats, but from what I can find there
    seems to only be the word of the victim to rely on. I also think it’s a tad
    wrong to let these two have a media trial, instead of a fair one. Everyone
    deserves a fair trial… I don’t know any more… Why does everyone suck?

  4. AsexyJaye

    I’m not sure what’s happening… I think I woke up a little late and then
    everyone’s talking about this and no one will tell me what’s going on D:

  5. Claire Sawyers

    You are a little bit brilliant Fiona not only do you cover topics like this
    in a clear concise manner but your voice is also rather lovely to listen
    to.

  6. 314jake

    You’re perfect and beautiful i mean that’s probably bollocks cause maybe
    you bite children (or some other less gross and specific form of being
    imperfect) but it’s a nice thought; fuck punctuation.

  7. Jared Frick

    Indeed, nobody is ever all good or all bad, we live on a bell curve and we
    also change, day-to-day and year-to-year. The only people we need to keep
    our guards up on are the people who really act and think like they are
    better than us. Be well.

  8. shamanahaboolist

    Bdsm doesn’t always involve that. Sometimes it is indistinguishable from
    abusive + co-dependency relationships and just kinda happens as a dynamic
    between people. Some people feel more comfortable in that dynamic… they
    learn to love the pain and trapping like stockholm syndrome.

  9. SteefAwesome

    Don’t worry Fiona, I never trusted you in the first place! (Kidding obvs,
    sorta. Really wish better jokes could be made here, but I don’t wanna seem
    disrespectful. So much respect for the victims, and even more for those who
    spoke out. Of course I’m only a passive viewer with no real connection to
    anyone involved but it’s still all pretty upsetting. Why didn’t I close the
    parentheses yet?)

  10. AddHazers

    I’m really glad you put up a video about not only this specific stuff, but
    it really opened my eyes to the fact that we’re all just human beings, and
    we’re all unique and everyone’s own thing is their own thing. I now can
    really appreciate people alot more for more than what’s so great about them
    and what’s not 😀 keep on enlightening

  11. DomninantAlphaWolf

    I literally cannot count anymore how many times I have had to explain to
    people that BDSM isn’t abuse and that Polyamory and Cheating are so fucking
    different. Oh my god I really can’t believe it’s still a question. Thanks
    for being great and getting that out there in a reach so so much further
    than this little old Alpha could ever dream of having.

  12. Alice Goold

    Hi so I’ve read all the stuff about Alex day but don’t really
    understand/can’t find the correct information about this, could someone
    help me out? 

  13. Bubble Bee

    I really like the things you said about the whole issue, and I appreciate
    that at least some people are working on stopping the misinformation and
    stereotypes. Abusive relationships happen because of abusive people, not
    because of anything else.

  14. thewanderandhiscomp

    Most so called Doms I have met have not been truly in the lifestykle
    instead just wanted to play kink..and if a guy says he is poly he shoulds
    allow his partner to explore or play as well..and there is a difference
    between swinging and poly. I was lucky met a wonderful Lady early in my
    life and coached me well..till I discovered I was Dom…love seeing a sub
    explore enjoy and grow…

  15. Ruth Tirado

    i didn’t know any of this was going on in the youtube community at all but
    my heart goes out to those deeply affected. as someone who’s dabbled with
    bdsm, i find that it often requires more trust (because y’know, people are
    tying you up) and so when that trust is broken, its very devastating.

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