What’s your opinion of polyamory?
Could you be in a polyamourous relationship?
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Personally I think polyamorous relationships are no different than
monogamous relationships. It definitely would take some getting used to if
I were to be in a polyamorous relationship, but I definitely do feel as
though whether you’re mono or poly, your relationship is equal.
You’ve pretty much summed up my thoughts and observations on polyamory.
This is perfect timing because I’ve been reading “The Ethical Slut” ( which
deals with alternative sexual relationships and dynamics).And I’ve come to
the conclusion that I am definitely a fan of traditional monogamy. I was
also talking to a date about this and he too, felt the same. Like you, I
have also observed the dynamic where one partner(usually the male from what
I’ve seen) pushes for an open/poly situation, and although reluctant, the
other partner will go along with it as not to disturb what has already been
established. When the topic of polyamory comes up in any form of discourse,
those in favor of it tend to adopt this air of superiority? They think
themselves progressive and more evolved than thou. But we are still humans,
and I know issues of jealousy come to the surface often. I don’t want to
share my partner with anyone else. If this works for some, then I don’t
have a problem. However personally, not a go for me.
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I personally have the same views about polyamory as you :)
its not wrong, its just not for me.
Polyamory works but for way less people than the amount of those who try
it. Very few people really can pull it off with no jealousy, crossing of
boundaries, or game playing.
I’m bisexual but I could personally never be in a relationship with more
than one person. It’s its either going to be just me and just you or I’m
gonna move on.
I may like both genders but I will never be with a man and a woman at the
same time. When I was in highschool though a lot of my friends were bi and
a lot of them though that meant you could(should) have a boyfriend and a
girlfriend. Hell, for a short time my girlfriend at the time had a
boyfriend (he and I knew about each other but he and I were not involved in
any way). He ended up jealous and she broke up with him and shortly after I
left her because she had feelings for him still. So for me it isn’t my cup
of tea. I’m just a one partner type of girl.
For the protocol I’m in poly relationships for 20 years by now.
+Kat Blaque you’ve seen a lot of relationships where one person is poly
and the other is mono. In my experience they tend to fail, hard.
It’s also this “realtionship for life” thinking that a lot of mono people
seem to have (out of fear to never find a matching partner again, maybe?)
that is inherently problematic for me.
To me, it’s perfectly fine to spend a couple of years together and go
seperate ways at some point.
As people we change over time someone can be very different 7 years down
There’s no right or wrong way to do poly but it can take some time ’till
one figures out what works and what doesn’t.
I’m currently in a poly relationship with 6 partners,
5 of ’em do have, at this point in time, other partners.and each of ’em has
a slightly different spin on how they manage there relationships.
I have a open door policy with my partners. that is, I don’t care what they
do with there other partners, hook-ups etc and they don’t care what I do.
If you got any questions, feel free to ask.
I think having a relationship with one person is hard enough, let alone
with more than one person. But I know that people do do it. I think it’s
far easier however to have a side affair than to have a whole different
thing with another person. It’s inevitable for most people, especially men
but some women too. But poly … I don’t know. I’m definitely monogamous
and I haven’t been in a relationship yet but I don’t know what I’d do if I
had a boyfriend who wanted an open relationship but I guess it may come
with the territory.
Is it wrong? No. is it for everyone? No. are there wrong ways to do it?
yes. I was in a relationship with a girl who wanted to open things, she had
many affairs usually she discussed it with me first, which was a rule we
set, that she broke a few times, and whenever I mentioned someone I was
interested in she would get jealous and upset. It was very one sidedly
Yes there definitely are some unhealthy poly relationships just like there
are some unhealthy monogamous relationships. Im really very into poly
relationships. I havent experienced a monogamous relationship but
polyamorous relationships are just my thing. The reason is *not* that I
need multiple people constantly. I might want a little change here and
there but thats not very often at all. The main reason I feel like monogamy
doesnt work for me is that I feel like for ME monogamy is an unnecessary
restriction. I dont want my partner to feel bad about finding other people
attractive/cute/whatever and just enjoying what other people have to offer
you know. And I dont want to have to feel bad about doing the same. I dont
see how could that be harmful to the relationship as long as everyone is
being honest. Polyamory needs confidence and lack of jealousy.
Also, Im single right now but when Im not I usually dont interact with my
partner’s partner(s). So its just like me and my partner having fun with
other people too but OUR relationship remains between us. Im way too
introverted to be with two or more people in ONE relationship. That’d be
exhausting. It all needs to be separate.
Also, I wouldnt even call it polyamory when one person is pretending to
agree with it but is actually not okay with it. Then one person is poly and
the other is really not so the relationship is not poly, its a lie.
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